Just posted this on FB. We shall see what results.
My dear fellow straight white male Christians who are empathising with women by imagining them as your daughters, wives, sisters or mothers:
Congratulations on making a start.
Can I make a suggestion, though? How about empathising with them simply as fellow human beings?
I assume you don’t have to picture another man as your son, brother, or father in order to empathise with him.
“But I don’t have to do that because other men are like me!”
Yes, exactly.
And once you’ve managed this with women – I have faith in you, you can do it – you could even try doing the same exercise with people of other races or religions or social classes. Fellow human beings.
“But how would I even start?”
Well, you could find a well-written fictional or nonfictional story – book, movie, TV show, whatever medium you prefer – from the point of view of a person you think of as different from you, and look for the common humanity: the desire to be loved, the longing for connection, the fear of rejection, the loyalty to family or people who are like family (which is where we started, after all), the courage and perseverance in the face of life’s struggles. Maybe post on your timeline and ask for recommendations.
Are you up for it?