{"id":1589,"date":"2017-05-07T07:17:15","date_gmt":"2017-05-06T19:17:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/?p=1589"},"modified":"2017-05-07T07:17:15","modified_gmt":"2017-05-06T19:17:15","slug":"being-visible-being-seen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/2017\/05\/07\/being-visible-being-seen\/","title":{"rendered":"Being Visible, Being Seen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My wife has a long-term disability, one which, while it doesn\u2019t confine her to a wheelchair permanently, does affect her mobility. She and I watch the TV shows <i>NCIS<\/i> and <i>Bones<\/i> together, and we\u2019ve been discussing the representation of disability in the two shows. I\u2019ll avoid spoilerific specifics, but in each show there is now a character who has been caught in a bomb blast and is confined to a wheelchair. The two sets of writers handle this circumstance quite differently.<\/p>\n<p>The <i>NCIS<\/i> writers chose a minor character who only appears occasionally. When she appears, she\u2019s in a wheelchair now &#8211; and that\u2019s about it. There was some very brief dialogue about how it was difficult for her to adjust, a hint that maybe her boyfriend, who\u2019s also a character, found it difficult &#8211; but no arc, no real story about how this changes her life and his life and their life together.<br \/>\nThe charitable way of interpreting this approach is that the writers want to normalise disability, to present a disabled character as just a character who happens to have a disability and otherwise goes on with her life. Given the many opportunities these same writers have missed with the Ellie Bishop character, though (which is a whole different rant), I\u2019m not inclined to be that charitable; and I\u2019ll discuss later in this piece why, even under that interpretation, it\u2019s still a problem.<\/p>\n<p>The <i>Bones<\/i> writers chose a character from the core cast, who\u2019s in every episode. This puts the whole issue more front and centre. Also, what they\u2019ve done is represent the experience of having a disability, having a life partner with a disability, having a friend and colleague with a disability: the frustration with the things you can\u2019t do any more; wanting to carry on with your work so you can feel useful, and hold on to all the things you can still do and haven\u2019t lost; the unjustified optimism; the false hope which is dashed; the anger; pushing away those who care for you when you can\u2019t deal with the emotions; not wanting to be pitied, yet feeling self-pity; the fear; the bad coping; the lost possibilities; the weight of the reality that it isn\u2019t going to get better, that this is your life now; and also the experience of not knowing how to help your lover or friend, and frustration with their process and their emotions.<\/p>\n<p>To me, the difference between these two shows is the difference between being <i>visible<\/i> and being <i>seen<\/i>. Disability in NCIS is visible: there\u2019s a visibly disabled character (occasionally). But it\u2019s a little bit like the sexy lamp test: If your female character was replaced with a sexy lamp, would it make any discernable difference to the plot? If that character was not disabled, had made a full physical and emotional recovery, or had never been in the bomb blast at all, would the plot of any episode of the show have to change even slightly? It would not.<\/p>\n<p>Case in point: a recent episode in which the disabled character&#8217;s boyfriend is looking at an apartment with a view to their moving in. There is a clearly visible step at the entrance to the apartment, one which you could not get down in a wheelchair. Nothing is said about this.<\/p>\n<p>In contrast, disability in <i>Bones<\/i> is <i>seen<\/i>. A disabled person &#8211; my wife &#8211; looks at it and says, \u201cThat\u2019s what it\u2019s like. That\u2019s how it is.\u201d She feels represented, in other words, not just tokenised.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s early days in the Bones arc, but I expect good things. I expect the writers to continue to unfold what it\u2019s like to be, or be close to, a person with a disability: the ups and downs, the personal growth, the things that always stay frustrating, the way you find value in your life anyway, the adjustments that everyone has to make.<\/p>\n<p>There are two parts to diversity and representation. There\u2019s the part that affirms that these people who are different in some way are also still people, that reminds us of our common humanity and our common human experience, and that\u2019s important. But there\u2019s also the part that says, \u201cThese fellow humans of ours have a different experience of being human that comes from who they are, and that different experience is also interesting and worthy of being seen.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m committed to writing diverse characters in my fiction, not as some sort of quota, but because different experiences of being human are part of what fantasy and science fiction are about. I don\u2019t do it enough, and when I do it, I\u2019m sure I get it wrong sometimes; but I want to keep doing it, in the hope that people will recognise themselves and feel seen, and in the hope that other people will see not only their common humanity but also the value and importance of their difference.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My wife has a long-term disability, one which, while it doesn\u2019t confine her to a wheelchair permanently, does affect her mobility. She and I watch the TV shows NCIS and Bones together, and we\u2019ve been discussing the representation of disability &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/2017\/05\/07\/being-visible-being-seen\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1589"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1589"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1589\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1591,"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1589\/revisions\/1591"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1589"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1589"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/csidemedia.com\/gryphonclerks\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1589"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}